





Welcome back to Get Real! It’s a double dose of The Bachelorette so let’s just get right into it.

Last time, we ended on a bitter-sweet note. Ed came back (yay!) but Wes stayed (boo!). Now, Jillian and the remaining four bachelors have made their way to Spain for a romantic getaway.
Jillian’s first date in Spain was with Kiptyn. They are such a cute couple! Oh, but Kiptyn kinda laid a big bomb on Jillian by saying that he thinks a proposal is way off. And I totally agree with him because why would you get engaged after only a few months? And in such a setting? He is being completely realistic and I think that is something that might eventually come between these two.
Then the two took a Flamenco lesson and boy does Jillian have no rhythm at all! Haha!
When they had dinner, Jillian had some “tough” questions for Kiptyn. She talked to him about kids, his ex-girlfriends, what he might change about himself, etc. Ok, this may be a first in my recent Bachelorette memory – Jillian turned down the overnight fantasy suite card! Okay, I don’t understand something. She is unsure about him and his insecurity about proposing to her too fast and yet she doesn’t want to move forward with the overnight date. I don’t get it! She needs to make up her mind on what she wants! Ugh.
The next date was with Reid. I love him. He is my second favorite guy and I can totally see them together. Though, they still seem to be in that honeymoon phase and I don’t know how either of them would react to their first fight or the slightest hint of irritation. Ok, she declined again! Why does she keep pushing them away but then also pressure them in other ways?! She’s confusing!
Finally it’s time for the date with Ed! Hooray! I just love Ed and I want them to end up together! He’s so much more perfect for her than I thought he would be. I don’t care that he left her once…I think that means he won’t do it again. He is totally my favorite! I like that he seems to be the most normal of the guys, too. Yay, she didn’t decline Ed!! :)
Ugh, there was one last date with the dreaded Wes. I can’t believe he’s still there. Ah, he is just too good at being smooth. But at least she was finally seeing that he is not actually interested in her. As much as it sucks for her and as sad as it is that she is going to be hurt by him, it’s definitely something she needs to go through so that she can get over him. I sincerely hope that she is listening to what he is saying because he is telling her that his manager wanted him to get exposure and that any publicity is good publicity.
OK, Jillian – he just said that he had a girlfriend! And then had to catch himself and say “ex-girlfriend.” And even after that he said that he thought they should use the fantasy suite. Thank goodness you were actually smart and didn’t take him up on it!
HOORAY!!! WES IS GOING HOME! Ugh, he is such an asshole. I have never hated anyone on reality TV more than him. Well, except maybe Heidi and Spencer! ;)
Now she is taking Ed, Reid, and Kiptyn to Maui for another romantic getaway.
Once again, her first date was with Kiptyn. They went to some strange rope course. Ah, yet another metaphor for love! Taking a leap of faith and showing your commitment. How original! Oh, but it was really cute the way they were talking to each other all coupley and such. This was really the first time that I could really see them as a couple and get some sort of idea about what their future would be like. It was cute. Jillian finally took her “leap of faith” and used the fantasy suite with Kiptyn.
Reid was next on the dating schedule. I still really like him. Did Jillian really say that she’s always wanted to go on a helicopter ride above Maui? Who counts that as something you really want to do in life?! In the end I think things will move too fast for Reid and that will be what gets in between them. I think he is definitely falling in love for her but it’s just too soon. And I can understand his sentiments completely!
Last but certainly not least was Ed’s date. Ugh, I just love him! And he surprised her by flying his parents out to Hawaii to meet Jillian! So cute!! I am just hoping that things go well because I love them together so much. Hmm, Jillian gave Ed the fantasy suite card before dinner! A little anxious, are we? Ok, I need to say that I do not like Ed’s hair in the date. It’s so nerdy looking, haha! Aw, he is the only one to tell her so far that he is falling in love with her! Hooray. BUT, the most awkward thing happened! Now, I have seen enough of these shows to know what happens on these overnight dates. But it has never been explicitly said or displayed before. So it was a little surprising when they went into more detail with Ed and kind of uncomfortable to watch! And I really didn’t need to know that he was unable to “seal the deal.” I mean, yes, that is, of course, a big deal, sure. But why make it such a deal? Awkward…
Oh gosh, I have no idea who she is going to choose!! She just better choose Ed that’s all I say. How she can even think of denying that she and Ed are clearly meant to be together is beyond me! She pulled him aside to make sure things were okay even and I just hope, hope, hope that it means she trusts him.
Okay, so she chooses Kiptyn first which I knew was going to happen. Even though I think that it should have been between Reid and Ed and not Kiptyn, I knew she would choose him. But she also chose Ed! Oh, thank goodness! And I knew that Reid’s inability to express his emotions is what cost him in the end. And Ed made the smartest move ever by going over to console her when she was crying. I bet Kiptyn was wishing he had done it but I’m glad that it was Ed who went to her side.
Next up on Get Real, a two-fer of So You Think You Can Dance! Stay tuned :)








This is when the show starts! Jillian has her men chosen and we actually get to start with the dates! The 20 guys moved into the bunk house down the driveway from Jillian’s huge LA mansion. The guys were told that there would be three dates: two group dates and one group date. Each date would have a rose and those guys who got the three roses would get to move into the mansion with Jillian. But, not everyone would get to go on a date this week. So, whoever didn’t get a date is pretty screwed!

Next up on Get Real, a special non-competition post about the gossip-worthy Jon and Kate Plus 8 premiere!
It’s the first part of the finale and, gosh, am I excited! Can I just say, though, that it seems as if Cheryl already feels like she and Gilles have won? She is getting more and more smug as the seasons wear on. And she always seems as if she is looking down at Shawn and Melissa when the couples are lined up at the beginning of the show.
o, I wasn’t sure if it was going to be too cheery or if they were going to try for more ballroom. They went for a hip hop themed dance and I approve since that seems more like Melissa’s style but I was not digging Tony’s uber tight see-through shirt. He should have just been shirtless in my opinion! There were certainly a lot of tricks here but it seems a little scattered and maybe Tony was making up for how safe his last freestyle was with Stacey in Season 2. All the judges wished that she had gone more elegant because of her ballet training, which is a little odd because of all the times they have criticized her for it in the past, but I see what they were going for. The judges rewarded her with 27 out of 30.
& Cheryl finished off the night with their freestyle. I am not liking his outfit at all. Why is he wearing jeans with a ripped sparkly black t-shirt? It’s a little gross and “sleazy guy at the club!” Although, from the music, I can see that it was meant to be a little 80’s-esque, so it’s a bit better. It was overall good, but it seemed to be more about Cheryl than Gilles. Often times, he wasn’t doing much dancing, but just lifting, holding or caressing Cheryl as she danced around him and slid on him all sexily. Surprisingly, Carrie Ann and Bruno agreed with me about there not being enough dancing from Gilles! Hooray! Ultimately, he ended up with a 28 out of 30.
Yay!! SO excited that The Bachelorette is starting and that Jillian is it! She’s just so darn cute and down to earth, you just want her to do well and find the perfect man. Here’s to Jillian and her search for “Mr. Invisible!”
So, who are these guys who think they’re worthy of Jillian’s love? Well, considering that some of them will soon drift off into oblivion, here are my Top Guys and Bottom Guys pre-rose ceremony...
Top Guys:
have a chance with her. But what’s more amazing is that they even watched the show or know enough about her to want to pursue her and come on the show! It’s so fun, too, to see the guys being all gossipy and talking about their nerves when meeting a new girl and how cute she is and how her white dress is intimidating! Ha, love it!
So, as you can see, the list of things to come is much shorter than those not to come. And for any other new shows that decide to show up, here are my basic rules of whether or not it is worthy of Get Real:
Up next on Get Real, the finale of DWTS and the premiere of The Bachelorette! Stay tuned :)